Three years ago, when our house burned down, I lost an important part of my identity. Â Now, this was a part that had been dying out for awhile, but the fire ended it definitively.
Along with being the person with a lot of books, I was also a letter-writer. Â I’ve written letters almost all my life, starting in fourth grade when my best friend moved to Indiana. Â We have stayed in touch for close to 40 years, and while now it’s via email and Facebook, I doubt we would still be close today if it weren’t for the letters we exchanged.
I took letter writing to a-whole-nother level when I went away to college. Â I maintained regular correspondence with around 14 people. Â My first year I had a rule that I had to answer each letter on the day I received it, meaning that on the day I received 17 letters I was up writing until two a.m. Â My husband worked at the Georgetown Post Office, and he tells me I was known their by name, and that they made jokes that I should have my own zip code.
I didn’t quite keep up that pace all four years, but I did keep writing letters. Â And I saved the replies. Â Until they burned in the fire I had a foot-locker-sized box full of letters.
As email and then Facebook changed the way people kept in touch, I still kept writing letters. Â I had a few correspondents, but I even sent letters to folks who didn’t reply. Â Every year after Christmas, for example, I’d write a quick note to anyone who had written a personal message or enclosed a letter (even a form letter!) in their Christmas card. Â Right up until the house burned down I was still taking pictures on film and getting extra prints so I could enclose them in my letters.
I had a briefcase that was dedicated to my letter writing enterprise. Â It contained the address book I had maintained for many years, various cards and stationery, address labels, stamps, pens, pictures or clippings I planned to enclose in letters, and any letters I needed to answer. Â When I would go out by myself, I would bring it along and write a letter or two. Â I was going months between letters but I was still writing them.
Well, now I don’t have my briefcase or my address book or a camera or even any letters to answer. Â But what I do have is a LOT of blank cards and address labels that have come my way via inheritance (Grandma AND Mima) or via pleas for donations by various charities. Â I realized exactly how many when I was rummaging about for a Get Well card last night.
I miss writing letters. Â And I don’t want all those cards to go to waste. Â So I am going to start writing again. Â Maybe not ten-page epistles like I used to do, but at least little notes to let people know I am thinking about them.





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