by Leslie Sholly | Dec 6, 2011 | Deep Thoughts, FIRE
We use fire as a metaphor for life experience all the time. Garth Brooks sings about “standing outside the fire.” At Mass we sing of God strengthening us “like gold that’s tested in fire.” Only a little while I ago I was writing about the...
by Leslie Sholly | Oct 18, 2011 | FIRE, shopping
Of course losing sentimental items is by far the hardest part of a tragedy like ours. Some things really are just things, and can be replaced. The problem with that is that there are so MANY of them, and you don’t realize how many and much they cost and how...
by Leslie Sholly | Oct 18, 2011 | Deep Thoughts, FIRE
On the loss of all we owned, someone commented to me, “You unburdened yourselves.” True, although not on purpose. A lot of stuff we lost is better off as ashes, probably. I wouldn’t have chosen this method of decluttering/downsizing, but it...
by Leslie Sholly | Oct 18, 2011 | FIRE
What’s so terrible about losing everything (okay, let me just say that there is LOTS that is terrible about losing everything) is that “everything” is too big to grasp or think of or remember all at once. I KNOW I lost everything–every...
by Leslie Sholly | Oct 11, 2011 | FIRE
Today would have been Mima’s 93rd birthday. I feel especially melancholy today thinking of all the many treasures related to her that I lost in the fire. You already know about the afghans. But there was so much more. Before Mima moved from the home where...